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Grace Church
257 Kendall Street
Burlington, WI 53105

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Pastor Scott Carson

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PASTOR'S PENS 2007

Grace Church of Burlington August 19, 2007  “Your preferred style of worship says more about  your cultural background than your theology.”  Rick Warren             I recently read an article by Pastor Shane Hipps that really got me thinking. In this article Hipps wrote: “I scanned the congregation as we finished our third song extolling the wonders of God and our joy for all God has done. As we started the fourth song with the same spirit of energetic celebration, I glimpsed a friend, sitting in the back, who had told me that week that his wife had cheated on him and wanted a divorce. At that moment the lyrics kicked in, and we started singing joyful thanks for God's abundant blessings. The words I was singing suddenly felt forced, false, and even mocking. I had to spend the rest of the song looking away from my friend, who stood with his mouth shut, staring out the window. After the service I approached him and said, ‘I was thinking about you the entire service; it must have been painful sitting through some of the songs.’ ‘Yeah,’ he said. ‘I'm not sure this is a good time for me to attend church. It is painful to observe celebration and not be able to join. It accentuates my loneliness’.”             Worship is often equated with joy and celebration. It's a kind of pep rally to inspire thanksgiving and excitement about who God is. While this is a legitimate aspect of worship, at the same time it’s incomplete. Jesus was known as “the man of sorrows.” Would any of us dare to suggest that He did not worship? While our Lord obviously had a sense of humor, I somehow doubt that He often had the ecstatic joy that most of us associate with a true worship experience. Knowing that His life purpose was the cross, it’s apparent that most of Jesus’ life was a fairly sober experience. The book of Psalms is a record of ancient worship and a rich resource for our worship today yet an important pattern in the psalms is that they repeatedly employ a narrative arc, a movement from grief and lamentation to celebration and joy. This pattern is strikingly absent in many worship services today. We Americans tend to deny our suffering in favor of celebration.             Perhaps this is because we mistakenly believe that to acknowledge suffering might mean we are ungrateful or lacking in faith. More likely it’s because grief is an inefficient and unpleasant emotion that conflicts with the efficient and entertaining biases of today's culture.             This repression of our heaviest emotions is tragic, and over time it can lead to an inauthentic and unhealthy spiritual life. Most of us get a little nervous with someone who is ALWAYS happy. Something of their life smacks of a cover-up and artificialness.             Authenticity and integrity in worship means expressing both lament and praise. Each element completes the other. Without lament, praise is little more than shallow sentimentality and a denial of life's struggles and sin. Without praise, lament is a denial of hope and grace, both of which are central to our life of faith and to God's promises. To value one over the other is like suggesting that breathing in is more important than breathing out.             This is not only an issue of authenticity and integrity: it cuts to the heart of hospitality and sensitivity. For those coming to a worship service immersed in pain, celebratory praise takes on a mocking tone that excludes them. They are unable to join honestly in these choruses. By incorporating expressions of sorrow, pain, and grief into our worship, as the psalms do, the hurting are ushered into God's presence with honesty. At the same time, the rest of the congregation is reminded of the suffering community gathered in their midst. They are invited to weep with those who are weeping. By honoring their pain, we acknowledge those who are suffering and affirm them in their grief.             Yet worship is not complete without turning to praise. When pain has been acknowledged, those who suffer are invited beyond their pain to consider God's faithfulness in the midst of suffering and even to rejoice with those who are rejoicing. These opportunities for lament and praise are not simply about meeting personal needs. They are missional practices of authenticity, hospitality, compassion and care.             Authentic worship does not deny our tears or heartaches. It is not just putting on a happy face. It is that settled joy and peace, knowing that God is sovereign and even in the deep waters, we can trust Him. Often times the most intimate and honest worship rises to heaven from heavy hearts.